Your reading for Friday, March 17th. This reading seems to piggy-back off yesterday’s reading. Today, the cards are talking about the change that is happening because of the energies this week. It’s time to focus to bring forth real and lasting change, stay with it. Make peace with the memories that have been coming up this week, acknowledge their significance but still put them down.  The cards came out in an interesting way for this reading, another one with a few different parts. The first part is about you and your emotions around the situation, the second is about the situation you need to make peace with, and the third is about the energy to bring you forward. 

You have been in a state of pessimism, hesitating on whether you made the right choices. You have felt stuck, in the grief, the loss of this past situation. I see though, that you have been starting to work through this. The pain of this situation doesn’t sting as bad as it once did. With the first four tarot cards, all the women depicted are all facing away. This shows me that you are trying to put this behind you and that it is influence by a past situation. With the10 of swords being part of this part, it’s telling me that the situation is done, this cycle is fully complete. There is a promise of a new day, you are starting over, wiser. You are breaking free from the person who allowed this in your life, reclaiming your power. 

The situation the cards are talking about. This is around a major relationship in your life, maybe a marriage. The passion died, you took on too much of the weight within the relationship and it killed your fire for it, like a car running out of gas. Potentially, there were problems around your sex life too. The person you were dealing with in this situation was emotionally unavailable, bitter, and a liar. What was underneath the surface was a lot of self-loathing, they couldn’t bring their heart and mind into balance. For you, there was such a history with this person, it made it hard for you to leave. You held on longer than you should have.

The energy that’s bringing you forward. I see you building your community, trying to bring some structure back to your life. Bring in financial stability, letting go of things that no longer serve. You are bringing balance to your life. Remember to take personal responsibility for all aspects of your life, even the sides that you may not be as big of a fan of. While the things that have happened in your life were hard and you went through so much, it was to herald in this change. This is your reminder to acknowledge how far you have come, celebrate your accomplishments, and accept your defeats.